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Playing Poker Responsibly
Just like any of our other vices, online
gambling can get very addicting, very
quickly. It’s important to make sure that
your online gaming doesn’t get out of
control. It may be fun for awhile, but when
you can’t make your mortgage payment because
you’ve dumped too much money into your
online poker account; it’s time to think
about holding back and seeking some help.
There are a number of resources out there to
help with gambling addictions. We don’t have
a preference for one over another. The
important part is to seek help if your
gambling gets out of control. You may want
to check out some of the following
resources:
The Responsible Gambling Council can be
found at
http://www.responsiblegambling.org/.
Their mission statement is straight forward:
The RCG is a non-profit organization that
works with individuals and communities to
address gambling in a healthy and
responsible way. The council undertakes
research and public awareness programs
designed to prevent gambling-related
problems.
Probably the most well-know organization for
gambling problems is Gambler’s Anonymous.
The operate much on the premise of
Alcoholics Anonymous and can be found online
at
http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/.
The following comes directly from their
website. GAMBLERS ANONYMOUS is a fellowship
of men and women who share their experience,
strength and hope with each other that they
may solve their common problem and help
others to recover from a gambling problem.
The only requirement for membership is a
desire to stop gambling. There are no dues
or fees for Gamblers Anonymous membership;
we are self-supporting through our own
contributions. Gamblers Anonymous is not
allied with any sect, denomination,
politics, organization or institution; does
not wish to engage in any controversy;
neither endorses nor opposes any cause. Our
primary purpose is to stop gambling and to
help other compulsive gamblers do the same.
Most of us have been unwilling to admit we
were real problem gamblers. No one likes to
think they are different from their fellows.
Therefore, it is not surprising that our
gambling careers have been characterized by
countless vain attempts to prove we could
gamble like other people. The idea that
somehow, some day, we will control our
gambling is the great obsession of every
compulsive gambler. The persistence of this
illusion is astonishing. Many pursue it into
the gates of prison, insanity or death.
We learned we had to concede fully to our
innermost selves that we are compulsive
gamblers. This is the first step in our
recovery. With reference to gambling, the
delusion that we are like other people, or
presently may be, has to be smashed.
We have lost the ability to control our
gambling. We know that no real compulsive
gambler ever regains control. All of us felt
at times we were regaining control, but such
intervals - usually brief -were inevitably
followed by still less control, which led in
time to pitiful and incomprehensible
demoralization.
We are convinced that gamblers of our type
are in the grip of a progressive illness.
Over any considerable period of time we get
worse, never better. Therefore, in order to
lead normal happy lives, we try to practice
to the best of our ability, certain
principles in our daily affairs.
Finally, don’t hesitate to contact your
family physician or call a local therapist
if you think you might have a gambling
problem. The main thing is to know that you
have a problem and that you need to seek out
resources to control that problem. It’s
nothing to be ashamed of. The main thing to
keep in mind is that it needs to be brought
under control before serious damage is done |
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